I think of them as my orphan relatives.
The ones who left no descendants - no one to tell their stories. The aunts and uncles who may or may not be remembered fondly - or at all.
As generations pass, those who knew the stories of the orphan relatives pass on also.
The stories are lost.
I'm going to try and piece together the story of my grand aunt, Ruth Lucille Balding. I'm getting some help from first cousins in California and New York, an aunt in Texas, my sister, and all the old familiar resources available to family historians.
I recognize that perspective is subjective. Ruth's siblings no doubt had their own perspectives on their family of origin, and passed those down to their descendants.
I hope I do Ruth justice in the telling of her story.
Ruth Lucille Balding was born in Little Rock, Pulaski Co., AR on 9 May 1903 to her 15 year old mother Hattie Belle Chapin,
and her 29 year old father, Victor Claude Balding.
Ruth lived in Little Rock all her life.
I believe she was named for another Ruth, her mother's sister,
who died when Hattie Chapin was about 5 years old. Three years after Ruth Chapin's death in 1892, Fred Chapin brought his wife Eada, and 8 year old daughter, Hattie, from Fort Scott to Little Rock.
I think her sister must have been on Hattie's mind when her first daughter was born.
Hattie and Victor had six other children after Ruth - Eugene Victor in 1905; Doris Geneva
in 1907; Vera Virginia in 1910; Marion Chapin "Murnie" in 1912; Marvin Parrish in 1915; and Russell Ellington in 1917.
As was often the case in large families, Ruth became a surrogate mother to her younger siblings. She may have felt she lost her childhood, as evidenced by a conversation one of my cousins remembers being related to her by one of our relatives. Teen-aged Ruth stumbled upon her parents getting frisky, and told them to cut it out, because she wasn't going to raise any more of their children.
By 1920, Ruth was employed at the Brandon Stove Company (later The Brandon Company
) as a stenographer. She was 17 years old, and with her father, provided the financial support for the family of nine in their home at 217 Dennison Street.
Until she married the owner of the Brandon Stove Company, Walter Nathan Brandon, Sr., in 1932, Ruth lived at home with her parents, contributing her income to the common good, including that of some of her teenaged and adult siblings.
But she did find some time for fun with her family...as we'll see in Part 2
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